Friday 26 January 2024

Carrying on with my day job in this war-ridden world

They say 'fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.' I want to confess that I have been fooled twice, and the feeling of shame is hitting me hard. How so, you'd ask?

Let me take you back 4 years in time when Covid had just hit us. The ambiguous nature of this new virus had instilled fear amongst most of humanity. While most of us were battling life-threatening thoughts, there was a small fraction of solution-oriented humans who actually saw an opportunity for digitization in different sectors - gaming, healthcare, etc., and met with groundbreaking success.

Fast forward to 2024, we are again facing a crisis. While some parts of the world continue or enter into war situations, the other half faces an economic crisis. The news of layoffs has been constant. In these circumstances, I notice my mind defaulting back to the 'fight or flight' response, interfering with day-to-day life and priorities. While I don't in any way intend to suggest we should turn a blind eye to the world and carry on with our lives, what I intend to say is that it is an opportunity to become solution-oriented, to identify problems and solve them instead of giving in to a state of fear or turning away from it.

It is what we do with the things that are in our control that matters.

Wednesday 17 January 2024

Stretch and Spawn

What happens when you suddenly come to face the bounds of your capabilities? On one hand, you may choose the path of honesty and accept your limitations, which may present themselves as learning opportunities. Alternatively, you may choose the path of hurt and punish yourself with all the negative emotions that follow. These moments are good for stepping back to reflect and make choices, and these will be the principles that govern your life until you reach the next set of bounds.

PS: After a long time, I made a chapati that was almost circular, giving me hope that I could eventually achieve the perfect shape for a chapati. Why did this not happen sooner? I wonder as I reflect on the learnings I have accumulated over the past decade. It appears that I may not have been "listening" when the instructions were presented. I was deaf even though I had auditory senses. Funny!